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What should we think or do about Mel Gibson?

25 Sunday Sep 2011

Posted by rabbijohnrosove in American Jewish Life, Musings about God/Faith/Religious life

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When news hit several weeks ago that Mel Gibson is working on a new movie project about the Maccabees, I thought “O boy – here we go again!”

Given Mel’s penchant for bloody and gory stories, the Jewish civil war that raged 2175 years ago in the Judean hills between the extreme Hellenized Jews and the traditional Jewish priestly class (i.e. the Hasmoneans) seems a natural for him. A film-maker of Gibson’s abilities and notoriety will probably net him and everyone associated with the film a fortune, not that he needs the money!

Already, Jews are worrying. Given Gibson’s offensive track record concerning Jews (e.g. the anti-Semitic “Passion of the Christ”, his drunken anti-Semitic rant on the PCH and his father’s anti-Vatican II and philo-Nazi sentiments), we have come out of the woodwork to comment – me included.

What can we expect in Gibson’s treatment of our uniquely Jewish story of Judah Maccabee and the Maccabean Wars? Will he distort the history beyond recognition? Will he cast the story in a self-serving way that characterizes Jews, ancient and modern, using negative stereotypes? We can’t know at this point as no one has seen a script, and we can only hope for the best.

A more immediate question: Is Mel Gibson an anti-Semite? His history suggests that he is, but I’m not so sure. Though it’s usually true that if a creature looks like a duck, walks like a duck and talks like a duck, it’s a duck, I have questions about what Gibson really believes and feels about Judaism and the Jewish people based on what people who know him say about him.

My friend, Alan Nierob, is one of Gibson’s chief public defenders. Alan is Gibson’s long-time publicist and so, understandably, it is his job to manage Gibson’s image, but Alan also considers Gibson a friend and has told me for years that Gibson is not an anti-Semite. Alan is a child of Holocaust survivors, and I would think that if he believed Gibson were anti-Semitic, he would fire him just as Ari Emanuel did immediately after Gibson’s long-time agent died this past year.

I am also cautious to characterize Gibson as an anti-Semite because Rabbi Irwin Kula, President of Clal, The National Jewish Center for Learning and Leadership based in New York, is consulting with Gibson about the Maccabee movie. I can’t imagine that Rabbi Kula would do so if he thought Gibson were an anti-Semite.

This past week The LA Jewish Journal featured a substantial four-column expose, “Could Gibson Be Good for the Maccabees?” (written by Danielle Berrin) on Gibson and the run-up to this movie. It is an excellent piece that addresses all the relevant issues, interviews Gibson’s friends and foes as well as a number of Jewish leaders. It is worth reading (see below).

In the meantime, though Gibson has not asked the Jewish community for forgiveness for his past misdeeds and insensitivity to our tradition and people (note: without a sincere request for s’lichah – forgiveness, we are under no obligation to forgive), we need to remember that forgiveness is more about us than about the person who hurt us. To continue to nurture the wounds inflicted upon us long ago gives ultimate victory to the perpetrator. On that basis alone, it is best that we (regardless of what the other says or does) move on, live our lives forward, not bother ourselves overly much with who Gibson is or isn’t, and wait to see what comes of his project.

L’shanah tovah u-m’tukah!

http://www.jewishjournal.com/hollywoodjew/item/could_gibson_be_good_for_the_maccabees_20110921/

Jeremy Ben-Ami on Stephen Colbert Last Night – Brilliant

23 Friday Sep 2011

Posted by rabbijohnrosove in American Jewish Life, Israel and Palestine, Israel/Zionism

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Last night on the Colbert Nation Jeremy Ben-Ami, the President and Founder of J Street, a pro-Israel pro-peace political organization in Washington, D.C. appeared to discuss with Colbert the UN Palestinian State resolution and the complex situation in which Israel, the Palestinians, the UN, and the US find themselves. Stephen Colbert was superb, brilliant, well-informed, and funny – as always. Jeremy can always be counted on to deliver, and he did so in his customary grace, warmth, vision, and intelligence. It was a great segment, and I recommend you watch it and pass this around. Here is the link.

http://www.colbertnation.com/full-episodes/thu-september-22-2011-jeremy-ben-ami

Check my book recommendations on Jeremy’s book.

Forgiveness – S’lichot is This Saturday Night

23 Friday Sep 2011

Posted by rabbijohnrosove in American Jewish Life, Holidays, Musings about God/Faith/Religious life, Quote of the Day

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A better description of forgiveness follows that I have not seen anywhere else. I am grateful to my friend, Rabbi Sharon Brous, for passing it along to me.

As we formally begin the High Holiday season this Motzei Shabbat (Saturday night) with the service of S’lichot (meaning – “forgiveness”), Jonathan Sacks offers us a way to think and be as we enter this season.

For those of you in Los Angeles, our synagogue’s “Sl’ichot in White” commences at 9 PM with a pre-service Oneg followed by Havdalah, and offerings of poetry, song, brief divrei Torah, reflections, and a service in which we formally change the regular Torah mantles to the gorgeous and stunning white mantles created for us 20 years ago by artist Laurie Gross for the High Holidays. We will conclude with the blast (t’kiyah g’dolah) of the shofar. My colleagues, Rabbi Michelle Missaghieh, Rabbi Jocee Hudson, Chazzan Danny Maseng, our Executive Director, Bill Shpall, our staff and leadership at TIOH welcome you.

“Forgiveness is more than a technique of conflict resolution. It is a stunningly original strategy. In a world without forgiveness, evil begets evil, harm generates harm, and there is no way short of exhaustion or forgetfulness of breaking the sequence. Forgiveness breaks the chain. It introduces into the logic of interpersonal encounter the unpredictability of grace. It represents a decision not to do what instinct and passion urge us to do. It answers hate with a refusal to hate, animosity with generosity. Few more daring ideas have ever entered the human situation. Forgiveness means that we are not destined endlessly to replay the grievances of yesterday. It is the ability to live with the past without being held captive by the past. It would not be an exaggeration to say that forgiveness is the most compelling testimony to human freedom. It is about the action that is not reaction. It is the refusal to be defined by circumstance. It represents our ability to change course, reframe the narrative of the past and create an unexpected set of possibilities for the future… Indeed there is none so self-righteous as one who carries the burden of self-perceived victimhood. But it is ultimately dehumanizing. More than hate destroys the hated, it destroys the hater.”

-Rabbi Jonathan Sacks, Dignity of Difference, pps. 178-9

 

Tsuris in New York Magazine – A superb discussion of Obama and Netanyahu

21 Wednesday Sep 2011

Posted by rabbijohnrosove in American Jewish Life, American Politics and Life, Israel/Zionism

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I highly recommend this outstanding piece in New York Magazine on Obama’s strong support of Israel since before his presidency and his and his administration’s troubled relationship with PM Netanyahu. This writer tells it as it really is, credits Obama with being a strong friend and ally to Israel, and a president who has been courageous in advocating a settlement to the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. The article truthfully and effectively dresses down Bibi in a way that has long been over due. The article is honest about the mistakes and political miscalculations Obama has made and the failure of his own hasbara on what he has done to pressure both Israel and the Palestinians in the last 2 years. Obama’s record on Israel speaks for itself and his speech today in the UN was as good for Jews as we could ever hope for. In light of this speech the article gives important context.

http://www.thefivetowns.info/news-latest/25456-ny-magazine-the-tsuris-obama-is-the-best-thing-israel-has-going-for-it-right-now-.html

More on Glenn Beck as he prepares to desecrate God’s Holy Name at the Holiest Site of the Jewish people on Wednesday

22 Monday Aug 2011

Posted by rabbijohnrosove in American Jewish Life, American Politics and Life, Israel/Zionism

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About a week ago I wrote why I believe Glenn Beck is bad for Israel and for Middle East peace. In two days (Wednesday, August 24) Beck will stand at the foot of Har Hazeitim in Jerusalem and, according to YNET’s Washington, D,C. correspondent  Yitzhak Ben Horin, try and resuscitate his own career after being fired by Fox.

Note the end of the article that both Senator Joe Lieberman and House Majority Leader Eric Cantor, who are in Jerusalem, declined to attend Beck’s event,  without saying why or condemning him outright.

http://www.scribd.com/doc/62804946/Ynet-Aug21-11-DC-Correspondent-Slams-Israel-s-Cooperation-With-Glenn-Beck

When Civil Discourse on Israel Fails

22 Monday Aug 2011

Posted by rabbijohnrosove in American Jewish Life, Israel/Zionism

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In the early 1980s when I served as the Associate Rabbi at Congregation Sherith Israel in San Francisco, I had come to the conclusion that a two-states for two-peoples end-of-conflict resolution to the Israeli-Palestinian conflict was the only way that Israel could remain Jewish and democratic. The year was 1983 and Menachem Begin was Prime Minister of Israel. Only 9 years earlier the pro-Israel Breira organization made up mostly of American liberal Rabbis advocated for the same resolution and was drummed out of existence by the American Jewish establishment.

In 1983 I wanted to explain to my congregation why I supported the creation of a Palestinian State alongside a secure State of Israel, but because I was a young junior rabbi I called my childhood rabbi for advice. Rabbi Leonard Beerman had never been averse to controversy. He had fought in Israel’s War of Independence, marched with MLK, was among the very first American rabbis to protest the Vietnam War, and earlier than almost anyone else supported the Palestinians in their quest for statehood. For all this he was denied the Presidency of the Central Conference of American Rabbis when he was nominated.

Leonard told me; “John, I am already at the end of my congregational rabbinate and you are starting out. You will feel badly no matter what you do. I think you ought to be circumspect. Your day will come. Be patient.”

I heeded his counsel and said in my Rosh Hashanah sermon only that the most significant moral problem in the Israeli-Palestinian conflict was that there are two peoples who have legitimate claims to the same land.

After services concluded a number of synagogue leaders gathered to greet one another outside my Senior Rabbi’s study. A group of three Israelis approached and one of them, who happened to be the chairman of the Likud party of Tel Aviv, lost all semblance of civility and lunged at me. Thankfully, the synagogue president jumped between us and averted what would probably have been a powerful right to my jaw.

I recall the incident because ever since I wrote an op-ed column in March for The Los Angeles Jewish Journal expressing why I support J Street, a controversial left-leaning pro-Israel pro-peace political organization in Washington, D.C., there has been a constant flow of very nasty emails to me at Temple Israel by one man in particular, not a synagogue member.

Granted, one person sending vicious emails is not such a terrible thing to endure. I deleted his emails after the first couple, and eventually I had them all blocked. Out of sight, out of mind. However, for some reason in the last 2 weeks our Temple email system underwent some change and his emails began streaming into my in-box again. I was, frankly, dumbfounded that this guy was still at it. Though I am not worried for my safety, I have noticed that his tone has worsened. One accused me of contributing to the genocide of the Jewish people, and a second put me in league with Hamas.

Obviously, the sender is disturbed; but he is not alone in his intolerance and hatred for views with which he disagrees relative to Israel.

When Jeremy Ben-Ami (the founder and President of J Street) and David Suissa (a columnist for The LA Jewish Journal and The Huffington Post) spoke at Temple Israel in April before 600 people from throughout the LA Jewish community what was most striking was the civility of the event and the respectful way Jeremy and David dialogued. Both acknowledged that the other is pro-Israel even as they disagreed on fundamental issues.

As the September 21 vote in the UN General Assembly and possibly the Security Council on the Palestinian Statehood resolution approaches, we are likely to see the vitriol from the extreme right-wing intensify. We need to remember what the rabbis of the Talmud taught; that the reason for the destruction of the Second Temple was sinat chinam, groundless hatred of one Jew for another. The way our people behaves here and in Israel will help to determine the very character of the State of Israel. We all need to keep our heads.

Rabbi Yitz Greenberg – Still a towering figure with a special capacity to enlighten and inspire

17 Wednesday Aug 2011

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The last time I heard Rabbi Irving “Yitz” Greenberg speak was more than 30 years ago when he addressed a Jewish Federation gathering of young leaders that my wife Barbara and I were a part of in San Francisco where I served as the Associate Rabbi at Congregation Sherith Israel. “Yitz,” as he is widely and affectionately known, was compelling then, a favorite speaker of the organized Jewish community, a Jewish scholar of note, a significant theologian and thinker, a teacher par excellence, and a writer always worth reading.

In the intervening years I have read his books and marveled at his courage as a modern Orthodox Rabbi who insisted that all the religious streams had to keep talking together, critiquing each other honestly, listening to one another, and striving for mutual understanding, at the very least. He is courageous because, despite his intellectual heft and taking a back seat to no one, his pluralistic outreach to Jews of the Reform, Conservative and Reconstructionist movements set him up for calumny heaved at him by the small-minded right-wing orthodox rabbis and Jews, who have now taken over far too much of the traditional world in America and Israel.

Today, here in Los Angeles, I joined with more than 170 rabbis and rabbinic students at the annual Board of Rabbis of Southern California High Holyday practicum to hear Rabbi Greenberg, hosted by Stephen S. Wise Temple over the 405. In the intervening years he has lost none of his luster. Aging gracefully, tall and still lean, Yitz is a towering intellectual and spiritual figure. Having earned his s’michah (rabbinic ordination) in 1953 at Yeshiva Beis Yosef, he was a student of the great Rav Joseph Soloveitchik.

Rabbi Greenberg shared with us the essence of his forthcoming book; the grand Jewish narrative that embraces the themes of Creation, Covenant and Redemption. He argued persuasively that this narrative of Jewish tradition is the most influential narrative of any religion in human history. Upon it Judaism has based its sacred literature, liturgy, holydays, rituals and observance. This narrative theme also is found at the basis of Christianity, Islam and modern western civilization thereby including 2.5 billion people living today.

The High Holiday Practicum, a highlight of the Board of Rabbis calendar year, is NOT where we all get our sermon ideas for the holidays, as so many congregants suspect. Nevertheless, this day of learning does feed the heart, mind and soul, and as a result ideas begin to percolate as we rabbis struggle to find something meaningful, spiritual, Jewish, and personal to say when the Yamim Noraim arrive in just 6 weeks!

Yes – if you are wondering. I have been thinking now for several months and I have begun writing. Yet, what I write in these initial days of preparation is never what my congregants end up hearing, for “writing” is really all about “re-writing,” and that continues literally until the moment I stand on the bimah and start talking.

Rabbi Greenberg’s talks today were wonderful, and it was great to see and hear him again.

Book Recommendation – “Bending Toward the Sun: A Mother and Daughter Memoir,” by Leslie Gilbert-Lurie with Rita Lurie

09 Tuesday Aug 2011

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This wonderful memoir is so beautifully written, heart-breaking and honest that I cursed my exhaustion when sleep interrupted my reading. The author’s mother, Rita (Ruchel) Lurie at the age of 5 years with 14 members of her family were forced to flee their homes in Poland and were taken in by righteous rescuers who risked their own lives to hide this family in a dark attic for two years between the summers of 1942 and 1944 while Nazis frequented the farm and wandered menacingly around outside.

Rita witnessed the death of her baby brother Nahum and then her mother Leah two weeks later (from a broken heart?) in that attic. Rita and the remnants of her family (her father Isaac and sister Sara, soon to be renamed Sandra) wandered around Europe for 5 years until the United States took them in. The damage, of course, was done, and this was only the beginning of Rita’s life-long challenges to cope with the wounds she suffered with the loss of her mother and brother, her father’s marriage to a woman possessed with her own demons as a survivor of Auschwitz, and a father who loved her dearly but was limited emotionally and unable to give Rita what she really needed and wanted.

Yet, this beautiful little girl grew into a beautiful woman, married a prince of a man whom she loved and who loved her, and mothered three exceptional children of her own, all of whom have spent their lives in one way or another trying to make right for their mom what was beyond their capacity to do.

Rita’s oldest daughter Leslie, in elegant prose and with keen insight into her mother and herself, tells their story following nearly a decade of writing, researching, returning to Poland, and seeking out both the rescuers, neighbors and relatives who lived in the attic.

Rita’s and Leslie’s candor is ever-present and exceptionally self-revealing. They share some of their deepest secrets, fears, passions, and drives, and their courage in doing so speaks to their strength as individuals and to the power of their family “enmeshment” and loving bond. Leslie’s daughter Mikaela, now a teenager two generations removed from the Shoah, carries the DNA of her grandmother’s and mother’s experience into the next generation. The cover photo of the book shows the three of them walking away down a country road towards the sun.

There are many Holocaust memoirs, and they all break-the heart. This one does that but it also uplifts, and I recommend it highly.

For more information, see Leslie’s blog and an overview of the book at http://www.bendingtowardthesun.com/bending_toward_sun.php

 

 

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